Well, tomorrow is my birthday and I will officially turn 40. I have no problem with growing older; I’ve always embraced and accepted it. But what’s hard for me sometimes, is thinking about all the time I’ve wasted in life. I mean, all the years I spent drinking, partying, clubbing, etc., added absolutely zero value…
Month: July 2019
On Faith- Hope says it can happen, Faith says it will happen
Hope and Faith. Faith and Hope. You’re gonna need these two things to get through this life in one piece; to make it through your struggles and face the challenges that come your way. You’ll need them if you expect to keep getting back up, after life inevitably knocks you down. Hope is believing that…
On Love- What Is This Thing Called Love?
Love is probably one of the most misunderstood words ever. Is it a feeling? A duty? A commitment made to another person? Is it transactional, so that I can only love you if you love me back? Are there different kinds of love? Or are those different types just love mixed with other ingredients? Is love…
On Life – Overcoming Negative Patterns (Part 4)
These last two points I am going to cover today really had a huge impact on me and helped me to make lasting changes in my life. Let’s jump right in! 4) Doing the opposite of what I would normally do This really helped me to change my patterns in my relationships with men. I…
On Life – Overcoming Negative Patterns (Part 3)
Last week I left you with this thought: Self-care is always necessary and putting yourself first is never selfish. If you have a narrative in your head that says taking care of yourself is selfish, this is coming from people who benefit from your selflessness. It’s time for a new narrative. Obviously, being selfless is…